Rock and a hard Place.......

Here is an email between me and my grandmother:

• Amber Gefroh Blady

  • Hey Grandma, I talked to the nurse today and was talking about gramps, and she said that you would rather him not go back to the nursing home. She told me that they were recommending hospice. She said that he could go back to the nursing home and get hospice or could go in a hospice facility. I ideally would love to see him come back here and get hospice so we can spend time with him in his last time, I jsut wanted to get you feelings on it... Love, Amber
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  52 minutes ago

  Karan Marsh

  • Amber the doctors have been talking to me the past few days and they are tallking about hospice.
  • Don't know where the nurse is getting her infro as to me.
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  44 minutes ago

  Amber Gefroh Blady

  • so what are your thoughts on hospice?
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  43 minutes ago

  Karan Marsh

  • My email addy is karan1m@aol.com
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  9 minutes ago

  Karan Marsh

  • Amber I am in favor of hospice, but, number one, the nurse had no business telling anyone anything especially telling you that I didn't want him coming back there. As it stands now, unless they change their minds again, he will probably be coming to Leesville tomorrow or the next day, they are going to call and tell me when they move him. He will be at Hospice of Leesville. The nursing home doesn't have the capabilities of hospice. I spoke to his sister Jean several times today, as well as the past few days on this as well and she is very much in favor of this also as is his whole family. That is all I can tell you tonight.
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  6 minutes ago

  Karan Marsh

  • Once I made the decision along with his sister, they ask where to send him and I said Rosepine Nursing, but I found out as mentioned above that he can't go back there.
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  2 minutes ago

  Amber Gefroh Blady

  • oh, I wish they had the capabilities to take care of him here, but whereever he is we will see him 
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    Okay so really! She left him 2 years ago, what does she care what they tell me. I am his primary care person. And his sister, wtf, I didn't even know my grandpa had a sister til not that long ago. I have lived within 45 minutes of my grandpa for 25 years and have never ever heard of her or seen her and now she wants things done her way and her and my grandma are bff's. There has been one person, well and my family, that has seen him in 2 years, ME! My mother just called me and said my grandmother is all upset about this situation and me getting in the middle, are you kidding! We all know you just want him to die so you can sell the house and be free of any expenses he is causing. I am so mad!!!!!!!!!!!!!